Showing posts with label Self-Esteem. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self-Esteem. Show all posts
Aloha, Amigo!
How has the day
been over there? Hope you are holding up just fine (If so, thanks be to God.
Lol! That was how we used to write our informal letter back in the days.).
Anyway, in all things we give thanks. My day? Oh, thought you wouldn’t ask! My
day has been surprisingly great, thank you.
In the past
week, I have had a lot instances when my beliefs have been shaken. However, I
stand taller than ever today. One big thing you get to enjoy when your
self-esteem is up-to-date. I'm
feeling good, Mate!
We have been
talking about Self-Esteem in the last few posts. I have even decided that,
after we have done justice to the series, I would employ much other leverage to
make sure this reaches as much audiences possible. Trust me; I am optimistic
about reaching more people and touching more lives with this series.
You should do
your part by sharing this post and others in the series. Heck, why not just
share the heck out of the whole blog altogether? I'm thanking you in advance.
You can thank me later. You will see. Let us return to the topic, though.
Following the
first two steps mentioned in the first post, you would find below some other
ways to improve your self-esteem. These are actually more complicated than the
previous ones, but that is just that – it may be complicated but it is not
impossible.
This is where
you need to open your mind as, compared to the last post, this is a bigger
deal. Let us do this, amigo. I know we can!
Aloha,
Amigo!
How are you doing? My greetings should go
two ways. Yeah, two things involved. So, let us get straight to it:
- If you live in places where the heat has almost left our brains in boiling point, then, how are you holding up? I understand this kind of weather could make you lose your coolness. No problem; there is no reason why you can not stay hot. Just like me>>>
- Chilling Hot, Burning Cold;
(Yeah, that is me. You could be, too.)
- If you live in the cooler parts of the world, let me first tell you that I am jealous of you. Really jealous. However, if it has dropped subzero, then maybe it is best I am over here. I am not ready for any mortal combat. But if it comes>>>
- Chilling Hot, Burning Cold;
(I still Stand Me, No Matter the Weather)
So in my last post, I was talking about
Self-Esteem, and why we need to upgrade it. Cool, many people do that. Preach
to you about Self-Esteem, I mean. Tell you why you should do this and why you
should do that; why you should dump something and replace it with something
else. But how many of them teach you how?
Hey, that is one BIG difference between The
Preacher and The Teacher. Me? I can not even see myself, not even in the dream,
leaving the Teaching line. Yup!
Back to our discussion;
So, you just heard that the Self-Esteem
v1.0.2 you installed on your Mind-ware is old. News is out that the other cool
dudes on the block have upgraded to much newer versions. In fact, since v1.0.2,
we have had:
- 1.1.6
- 1.5
- 2.0
- 3.0
- 3.0.5
- 4.0
- 5.0 (The Latest)
Maybe you have been hiding under some
ancient rocks somewhere in a remote village, who knows? Anyway, you just found
out. No, scratch that; People actually found out about one person who was still
stuck with MS-Word ’95 (Sorry, I mean Self-Esteem v1.0.2). That is you, of course.
You got mocked, naturally (What else do you
expect in this world we live in, seriously?)
Somehow, you managed to invoke the –
admittedly weak- power from that version, and decided to upgrade. And that was
where you encountered the challenge: How
do you go about upgrading? How do you improve your Self-Esteem?
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Before we proceed, I want to believe that the
illustrative journey above makes sense to you. It probably would make much more
sense to those who are technologically inclined. Well, the fact that you are
reading this is a proof that you are, in the very least, not a dummy when it
comes to tech.
Enough of the rambling; Let us proceed.
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Below are Practical ways to improve your
Self-Esteem.
God is great!
That is what my Instinct told me to start this post with. It is also telling me that this post
would speak to many - maybe even to me. God is great once again. Believe it or
not, I can already see the reward of the acknowledgement. God is great, I say.
Why not say yours affirmatively?
Aloha, Amigo!
How has your day
been? I do not know how to put this. All I can say is that I am in an
incredibly great mood. It has been long since I had felt like my heart is about
to burst. The feeling is as a result of visible improvements in various areas
of my life. Not that there are not low times, but I have been putting my mind
to focusing on the high times.
And this is one
of them.
Speaking of Highs
and Lows, what comes to my mind right now is the issue of Self-Esteem; and how
high or low it could be, varying from person to person. You surely must met
some people who, just by how low their shoulders hang and their heads bow, you
could tell how miserable their lives must be.
Yet, there are
some (admittedly few) who carry themselves as if there are no worries in the
Whole Wide World. This people are believed to be happier, more fulfilled than
their counterparts. Interestingly, they often are. You might want to view this
subject as a simple common sense. It is not that simple for some. And yes,
there are still a lot you can learn; so enjoy the post.
Recently,
I wrote about why some people manage to get trapped. You can read about it here.
Anyway, I mentioned low self-esteem as one of the reasons. Consequently, I have
got feedbacks from people who identify with and are touched by the write-up,
both online and offline. Trust me; Self-Esteem is the basis of many mind
problems Man faces today.
Yours,
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